I prefer to use the routine than schedule. In recent times, schedule has had mixed connotations linked to the word. Some moms love scheduling, and others feel confined by it. Because of this, I prefer “setting a routine” for me and my children. I found setting a routine very helpful for my family. Both of my children like a routine, and they prefer me to stick with it. If I don’t, they usually communicate their dissatisfaction through crying or whining.
When I begin setting a routine, I focus first on when my children need to eat – breakfast, lunch, dinner and maybe a snack or two between. After this, I determine how much sleep my children need. My infant needs between 2 – 3 naps (2-hours each) daily and my toddler needs 1 (2-hour) nap. After I have determined these two things, then I have set up their routine. My question to you – how many well-fed and well-rested children throw tantrums?